2012-10-09

Circle of influence

There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did and who always will. (Adam Lindsay Gordon)

Once you get clear on who you are and what you want, you must re-evaluate your Circle of Influence.

Who you associate with is who you become. The term "role model'' is not used enough in our society. It’s extremely important to have role models. A role model will raise your standards. A role model will not let you get complacent. Finding a role model or mentor will spark your mind because they are playing the game at a higher level than you are.

If you hang around three confident people, you'll be the fourth.
If you hang around three intelligent people, you'll be the fourth.
If you hang around three millionaires, you'll be the fourth.
If you hang around three idiots, you will be the fourth.

It’s inevitable.

Such a simple concept, but what a difference it can make on your performance and business. There’s no faster way to advance into the top 5 percent of your industry than this. Yet, most people don’t do it. I challenge you to find those people, because you’ll become a lot like the people you spend the most time with. Their belief systems, their ways of being and their attitudes are contagious. Once you elevate your peer group, your standards will follow.